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Meeting on the set of her hit ABC showThe Goldbergsin October 2015, when Pelletier was part of a veteran tour group, “I found him very charming,” the actress-singer, 25, tells PEOPLE exclusively in this week’s issue. “He was handsome and charismatic and able to draw the attention of the room.”

After starting a long-distance relationship with Pelletier, 32, who was also from Texas, the actress fell deeply in love — only to discover a year and a half later that he was betraying her and, she says, stole almost $9,000 through fraudulent credit card charges and bank withdrawals.

“It was heartbreaking,” she adds. “I thought we were going to get married one day.”

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To help herself heal, Orrantia began writing music. Her latest EP,The Way Out, which will be released on May 24, reflects her grieving process.

“To be honest, the more I talked about it, the less it became mine,” she says. “And I was always hoping that there would be somebody that would hear about it and go, ‘Oh, that happened to me.’ ”

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“He didn’t spend any time in jail, but he has to pay me restitution,” Orrantia says. “So I got that. I kept asking myself, ‘Why do I need to do this?’ And really it’s for myself. It’s the fact that I’ve always been a truth teller.”

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Despite her loss, the actress still has faith in finding her happily ever after. “It’s taken a lot of therapy and a lot of time to reevaluate how to trust people, how to trust myself to know the difference between a person with good intentions and a person with bad intentions,” says Orrantia, whosefirst single “If I Don’t” comes out May 10.

She also wants to make sure this doesn’t happen to anyone else. “These songs are my way of going, ‘Here’s what I know,’ ” she adds. ” ‘And this is where it stops.’ “

source: people.com